ON THE PARSHA Parshas KEDOSHIM (VaYikra 19 & 20) by Dovid Lipman NOTE: The old styles are being temporarily abandoned due to conatrints on typing time. GRATITUDE (19:3) "Everyone must respect their mother and father, and keep my Shabbos; I am Hashem your G-d. Rashi brings the gemara which explains: though you must respect parents, keeping Shabbos is more important, so do not obey a command from them to break Shabbos. The idea is that the laws of human relationships are dependent on the laws of relating to Hashem, since the relationship with Hashem is what makes the laws between people meaningful. (Therefore, once Moshe had to break the tablet containing "You shall have no other gods...", he had to break the other tablet, because it contained only laws between man and man.) Why are these mitzvos chosen to teach this lesson? Because respecting parents is the basic human ethic of gratitude: Recognize the people to whom you owe your very life, not to mention that most parents invest almost unspeakable effort in raising their children. The Torah says that even here the loyalty to Hashem is higher; "I am Hashem, to whom you AND your parents AND the entire world owe the ability to exist, along with all the abilities any of you have, constantly." And the prototype mitzvah for acknowledging this debt is Shabbos, which recalls the Creation. So how can one respect a parent, but break Shabbos?